Monday, February 18, 2008

Goldilocks Revisited

I confess… us women are mysterious creatures; we are perpetually dissatisfied in life. When we’re happy, we question its validity. When we’re sad, we’re waiting to be happy again. It’s as if we’re nomads in a never-ending search for… well, I guess that’s another mystery.

Every girl ultimately wants to be with a guy who will pamper her like a princess, treat her like a lady, respect her as a woman, and love her indefinitely. But that’s boring. More than just that, what women really want (listen up Gibson), is excitement, sparks, and a worthwhile challenge. We want a guy who’s totally wrong for us, so we can turn him into the one who’s suddenly so perfect.

Maybe this is why good guys always finish last, because girls opt for the ones who will most likely steal their heart, break it, and give it back in pieces. Or on a lighter note, they’ll go for the one who define the words “incredibly sexy” – and “incredibly selfish” – simultaneously.

Why is it so hard to find someone with the whole package? Some have an amazing personality, some are extremely smart, some are insanely hot, and some are filthy rich. I’m sure we’ve all met guys that are too nice (yes, they do exist) and also those that are too good to be true. Now, if only we could all find the one that was just right…

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